Seeing that, you might feel the urge to exhort me that I'm not just "stuck", I'm fearfully and wonderfully made!!! Or you might want to remind me that others are a lot worse off than me, and I should be grateful for what I have. You might even want to warn me that I'm sinning in my audacious lack of acceptance for how my Creator designed me.
Maybe you'd be right.
All I know is, since not much has changed in the last 38 years with regard to my basic temperament and aptitude (despite my best efforts to the contrary), I am probably pretty much stuck with being myself, so I might as well make the best of it. (Not to worry: I'm not talking about accepting sin in my life, or giving up on God's power to transform me.)
I'm talking about looking myself square in the face and admitting that although I wasn't given some of the talents that others have, God did give me my own portion of strengths, and I might as well admit it. That way I can get on with the business of developing them and using them for good, instead of grovelling at the feet of the people I think I should be.
As long as I want to be (or think I should be) someone else [someone organized, say, or someone whose house is always immaculate, someone who plans ahead and actually carries it out, or someone who is always prepared at any moment for anything, someone who is confident and energetic and virtuous], the person God made me to be goes to waste.
So. There. It feels like a breakthrough, so I wanted to tell you, but you probably won't be surprised to hear that I have no idea what comes next.
And I think that just might be the point, actually.
I read recently on a friend's facebook page:
God is radically changing the way we depend on him. God has been saying, "Stay behind me." I protested, "But God, don't you always tell your friends what you are doing?" He said, "Yes, and I am telling you that you will not be able to know what I'm doing. You know nothing about trusting me. Stay behind me. And don't peek!"
We must be convinced in the deepest places that we can trust him. We will depend on him fully only when we come to the end of ourselves. [God] won't let any person or any thing on earth meet my needs but him, so that I won't trust in them.
"Stay behind me - and don't peek!" He says.
Looks like it might be time to learn to like surprises.